Friday 25 January 2008

Honest Word

When we recognise an unhealthy issue in a friend's life, at what point do we bring it to their attention? Do we see it as something to mention often or harp on the subject until our friend makes a needed change? We can be quick to call people to account. Is that always appropriate?

There are some folks who tend to see solely things from a right or wrong perspective. That's workable when we're referring to a third party. What about when it involves you or a close friend? How would you like to be confronted? Does our friendship require our corrective recommendations? It's like the wearer of the ugly hat...are you honest with them?

Galatians 6:1 (NIV)
1 Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted.

2 comments:

JDK said...

I think it's always important for us to be aware of the 'log in our own eye' - and sometimes open to recognising new faults that we've been unaware of previously. If we begin with this kind of humility, most people will be able to accept our gentle challenges.

Jim Knaggs said...

Thanks for this, jdk. You've drawn us to one of the major issues in the dialogue.